Most women want a man who they can trust and who makes them feel safe and secure. Unfortunately, too many women have experienced the opposite in romantic relationships. They go into the relationship with their whole heart, only to find disappointment and heartache.

Sometimes things just don’t work out, but when the relationship crumbles because of unkept promises, it can break your heart. Nobody likes to be told something and then find out that it’s not going to happen. For example, take a spouse who promises to be home in time for dinner but is repeatedly late night after night. It’s not long before the confidence in his words are lost. Or what about the man who comes into your life and sweeps you off your feet with his charm and good looks, promising to love only you, but you find out that he’s got other women in his life who he is telling the same line.

When something is broken, there are usually two options–fix it or throw it away. That works on inanimate objects like a flower vase or a child’s toy, but try doing this with a broken promise or broken heart and you’ll realize rather quickly that these options do not easily apply.

If the promise can be fixed or made right, great! If not, an apology or explanation can go a long way—if it’s sincere and with remorse. Resiliency, understanding and forgiveness are the necessary components to get past broken promises. Sometimes trying to fix it makes it shatter into more pieces. It may be best to leave it as is and move on.

The best antidote to keep from getting your heart broken from broken promises is to take things slow and easy at first in a new relationship. Watch the actions of the person and see if their talk matches their walk. It usually doesn’t take long before you see a pattern of behavior that can serve as a warning that this is a heartbreak waiting to happen! Let those who are playing games, play them on another playground. Reserve your heart for someone worthy.

Missing you isn’t the hard part, knowing I once had you is what breaks my heart. “

“Sometime you have to let go of the one you love to find out if there was ever something there to hold on to.”

“Why is it that no matter hw much pain it endures by holding on, the heart still refuses to let go.”

“The worst thing about getting your heart broken is going to sleep and knowing you’re going to wake up and nothing has changed”

It’s been a week today. Exactly a week and I haven’t heard from you. It cannot be the end. So abrupt and not expected. Our last conversation was 1.32am when you said “i love you”…

I dont know where you are, I dont know what you’re doing – if your suffering too the way I am. Are you thinking about me? Are you worrying about me? Do you even care still? So many questions left unanswered. I pray I see you soon. I need you, I need my sane self back. Not knowing and waiting is what kills me. This cannot be it. This cannot be the end. It was just the beginning. Or so I thought it was..

Our lives are always intertwined. I lost you once and I will not loose you again.  I refuse to not have you as part of my life – even though we cannot be anymore – I want you to understand how this silence has impacted my life. Im trying hard to get used to you not being around again. It’s hard. It is slowly killing me.

They say time heals all wounds. But right now the more I wait, the more I seem to want you, need you and love you. I don’t expect people to understand what I’m ranting about, but I hope you hear what my heart is telling you. What it is slowly whispering to you. I know you hear it.

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I feel your abscence every day
And I think of words that I dare not say
I turn the pages to clear my mind
The silence helps but not all the time
I toss and turn in my empty bed
The scattered portraits fly through my head

Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long
Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long

I feel the pull like a ball and chain
I move ahead but it stays the same
Clenching my eyes from the lamplight
Stings my skin like mosquito bites
The pain is not what it seems to be
It’s crushing me with your memory

Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long
Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long

The probing hearts see through my mask
Wanting to know but they never ask
Sometimes when I try to fool myself
It seems so real even I can’t tell
The ache is there still to give me doubt
Maybe that’s what love’s about

Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long
Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long

We give and take but we don’t ask why
Who’s left to blame when my soul runs dry
The writing stares like it’s on the wall
The end is not what I want at all
A parting glance on your awful face
An image I will never erase

Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long
Where did we go wrong?
God it’s been so long “

We are destined. I believe it. Fate brought us together the first time and I know fate will bring us together again. U have to believe. U have to want the same thing.

So, please let me know what you want and which way you want to go.

I only have your last words to hold on to and to go by. I have nothing else. “

And I didn’t even have a chance to say …

“I Love You too”

1. Caring is a wonderful gift that no one can buy. It is made up of love that roots in our hearts to make fruits of memory not just always but for a lifetime.

2. A great life is not about routine but doing something rare. To cherish and not to compare. To forgive, not to blame and to be loving without counting. Laugh at your mistakes but learn from them. Joke over your troubles but gather strength from them Have fun with your difficulties but overcome them.

3. The mind of God is different from the thoughts of man. As we follow Him, we discover that we lose to gain. Surrender to win, die to live. Give to receive, serve to reign. Scatter to reap. In weakness, we are made strong. In humility, we are lifted up & in emptiness, we are made full.

4. In life, you will never know what you’ve been missing until it arrives. And you will never know what you’ve got until its missing. Appreciate every little thing you have.

5. Before you start the day, just gently lay every troubled thought away. Drop burdens and cares in the quiet arms of prayer because God listens.

6. Jesus will knock on the door of your heart today. Looking for a place to stay, The moment you see Him, let Him in. Offer Him the best room in your heart.

7. Your good heart will tell you where to go. Your sharp mind will tell you how to get there. And your deep love for God will guide you on your way.

8. Life seems never the way we want it. But we must live it the best we can. There’s no such thing as a perfect life, on a life sprinkled with perfect moments.

9. Keep working with a good heart. You are worth not for what you have. Not even for who you are. But for what others have become because of you.

10. God is working in more ways than we ask Him. He;s doing more things for us than our faith can imagine. He makes all things beautiful. We are the living proof.

11. God understands that we are not strong all the time. Sometimes all we can do is rest on His arms as He takes us through the journey of life. With Him we are safe.

12. The Israelites saw Goliath and said: “He is so big, we cannot win.” David saw Goliath and said: “He is so big, I cannot miss.” Think positive. Believe.

13. Life is a paradox. What you want, you don’t get. What you get, you don’t enjoy. What you enjoy is not permanent. What is permanent is boring. Paradoxical, but its meant to build the best in you.

14. Live fully, have fun. Be crazy, be weird, go out & screw up! Don’t try to be perfect. Just be an excellent example of being human. Enjoy life.

15. The Lord never fails to give us new blessings every time we wake up. Waking up alive and well is already a miracle. A blessing we owe to Him.

16. Morning is God’s way of saying “one more time.” Live life. Make a difference. Touch one heart. Encourage one mind and inspire one soul.

17. Sunrise makes our morning beautiful. But the word of God strengthen us and makes our lives more meaningful. Smile and enjoy life with Jesus.

18. When God is involved, anything can happen. Be open. God has a beautiful way of bringing good situations out of broken chords.

19. The power of prayer will never leave you. Even in the darkest of times. It is the greatest weapon known to humankind. The freedom no one can take away.

20. May the Lord’s loving eyes watch over you as you do your work today. May His arms embrace you, His voice comfort you and His power protect you all day.

21. RISE & SHINE: Today’s diet: Zero in anger, more on patience, less on anxiety, more on hope, slow on bitterness, first in forgiveness. A blessed day!

22. I wish you woke up this morning realizing what a wonderful person you are. And the world is blessed to have you as a part of it. Enjoy life!

23. A close friend in Christ is someone who make you closer to Christ. Encourage youo to do what is right and has courage to tell your mistakes but help you to correct them.

24. Appreciate life even if its not a bed of roses. Contentment is not fulfillment of what you wished for but appreciation of what you have in God’s love.

25. When the time came, I listened to you. And when you needed help I cam to save you! -2Corinthians 6:2

26. Our purpose on earth is not to get lost in the dark in our journey through life. But to be a beacon of light so that others may find their way.

27. When you are sleeping, God gazes at you with love because you were His idea. He loves you as if you were the only person on earth.

28. The next time you admire the wonderful things God has made. Remember you’re one of them. Wonderful inside and out! You’re blessed! You’re special! You’re loved!

29. When God wants to make a mushroom, He does it overnight. But when He wants to make a giant oak tree, He takes a hundred years. Great souls are grown through struggles and storms and seasons of suffering. God is never in a hurry but He is always on time.

30. Dear soldire, I see that you are tired. I tell you, drop your sword and put down your shield. Why worry about the fight? After all its not your battle. Its mine. All you have to do is to be in the battle field. There against the thousand who tried to destroy you, there I will stand and rescue you. Winning this war requires neither only me nor only you. But rather, me and you. Just do your best and I’ll take care of the rest. Your commander, Jesus Christ.

31. Life is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. So love the people who treat you right, forget about the ones who don’t. Believe that everything happens for a reason. Know a good thing when you see it and don’t let it slip away. If you get a chance, take it. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said it would be easy, they just said it would be worth it.

32. Every sacrifice has a fruitful reward. Every failure has a second chance. We only have to be strong by God’s grace to persevere the tests of life.

33. Prayer isn’t an extra option nor is it a last resort when all other methods have failed. When man works, man works. But when man prays, God works.

34. Life is a continuous challenge, a constant struggle from womb to tomb. We are not made rich by what is in our pockets, but by what is in our hearts.

35. Everyday brings new chances to grow, new beauty to see, new plans to do & goals to pursue. Everyday is a step towards our dreams in life. Wishing you a fine happy morning.

36. A happy heart is a good medicine & a positive mind works healing. In your busy sched, don’t forget to smile and have a good laugh because it adds color to your life.

37. Never take someone for granted. Hold every person close to your heart because you might wake up one day and realize you’ve lost a diamond while you were busy collecting stones.

38. Its not necessary that all your efforts and sacrifices are recognized. As long as you know and God knows you did your best. Nothing more to say. Nothing more to prove.

39. when you run so fast to get somewhere, you miss the fun of getting there. Life is not a race so take it slower. Hear the music before the song is over.

40. a candle allows itself to be burned so that others may have light. May you always be on fire in bringing out the best in people.

41. life has many choices, if you canÂ’t have all, have some at least. If you canÂ’t be good, donÂ’t be bad. If you canÂ’t be totally happy, donÂ’t be completely sad. Enjoy life as it never leads back.

42. mornings are beautiful signs of hope. It was created by God to let us know that life doesnÂ’t end after the sunset/ every dawn is a new life, so wonderful!

43. never pray for an easier life, instead pray to be a stronger person. Never pray for tasks equal to your power but for power equal to conquer your tasks.

44. life isn’t like a train, that when you miss it, you can say, “I’ll catch the next one.” Never waste the opportunity to live it and have fun because this joyride passes just once.

45. begin the day with a trusting heart. Give all your concerns to God. Smile a moment and thank God for this new day. He cares for you all the way.

46. when youÂ’re down to nothing, God is up to something. Faith sees the invisible, believes the incredible, and receives the impossible. Keep up the faith.

47. sometimes we must get hurt in order to grow. We must fail in order to know. Sometimes our vision is clear only after our eyes are washed away with tears.

48. its tough to make a stand in this world where everyone expects you to be cool and in. but being a christian will not make you uncool, rather itÂ’s a chance to make yourself standout!

49. falling down doesnÂ’t make a person a failure. But staying down does. So always remember that no one is perfect and when you fail so hard, just bounce back higher.

50. no one is born happy but all of us are born with the ability to create happiness, just remember happiness is a state of mind and it depends on oneÂ’s attitude towards life, not on what one has.